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Don We Now Our Gay Marriage...Wait? No Gay Marriage This Year Again?

Let's take a trip into the distance past of... November 3rd, 2008. California and Florida all had a bill for the legalization of gay marriage up for vote. The majority of the country was shocked in horror that gay marriage was now illegal in California and Florida. And they weren't just shocked. They were PISSED. Many people in California protested for a repeal of Prop 8, or its loving nickname, Prop H8. Buzznet's own Mark and Rich were arrested for... protesting? I can't remember, but here's a blog/round-up on the entire ordeal. The repeal kept gay marriage illegal, but those married during the time when it was legal (i.e. Ellen DeGeneres and Portia DiRossi) would still have their marriage recognized by law.

This year, the gay marriage ballot situation was somewhat the same, but a little different. Our stars this year were the state of Maine (which, like California, had gay marriage legal for a while) and my own home state of Washington. While Maine was going to hope to make it officially legal, Washington had a bill that I have mentioned before, where gay couple have all the rights heterosexual married couples do-sick leaves to take care of their partner, etc.-except for the right to call their partner their "wife" or "husband".


The bill passed in Washington, making it a pseudo-victory I guess. I mean, they can have rights that married couples do, but they can't get married. I guess it's more of a "yay, sure whatever" instead of a "FRICK YEAH LET'S GO CELEBRATE AT OLIVE GARDEN!"
However, the situation isn't great in Maine. The bill passed, and now gay marriage is illegal. No word yet on whether anyone is demanding a repeal.

First, I don't get why anyone would vote against gay marriage, because the conservative ads against it are ridiculous. They act as if gay marriage will be the end of the Earth, and I don't think these groups want gays to look at each other cross-eyed.

It really is disappointing that its so hard to let gay people have the same rights as heretos. Really Maine, is it that hard to let gay people when you already run the biggest sinfest we like to call LobsterFest? And yes, the Bible does say that seafood is wrong. Leviticus, anyone? The Bible also says not to wear wool, but what does nearly everyone do every winter? Therefore, quit with the Bible excuses. Because then we'd have to outlaw wool and seafood.

Neil Patrick Harris wasn't kidding when he declared gay marriage will save the economy. Suze Orman, out lesbian and economic expert explained the entire thing on her show.

Of course, some people would ask "But domestic partnership is legal across the country. Isn't domestic partnership basically the same thing?" To answer that, I'll turn it over to Lucy "Xena" Lawless:

Come next November 3, if you can vote and your state is putting gay marriage up for vote, I urge you to vote for it. If you can't vote, and/or your state isn't putting it up for option, then take it to the Net, and join Facebook groups, sign petitions, etc.

Thank you for reading this.


Posted on 11/05/2009 1:23 PM Visits: 584
Maybe Just Maria: 11/05/2009 2:47 PM
Has anyone ever told you how amazingly you write?
I applaud you.
This just really gets me so frustrated cause they're running out of excuses and are now relying on religion when the government is not supposed to have a religion.
Neil Patrick Harris: 11/05/2009 3:50 PM
I'm outraged. I thought we were all supposed to be moving toward change.
But I guess if gay marriage is legalized the world will be awash with debauchery and sin and immoral children. And we can't have that.
Neil Patrick Harris: 11/05/2009 3:51 PM
I hope everyone realizes that's sarcasm
Em is for ily: 11/05/2009 4:51 PM
Another reason to quit with the Bible excuses: A little thing I like to call, SEPARATION OF CHURCH AND STATE!
Gabriel's Gonna Rollerblade: 11/06/2009 12:38 PM
In a state full of lighthouses, you'd think they be progressive enough to illuminate the rest of these troubled states and the debate that is gheyz married. I will never antique there again!
New Age Amazon: 11/06/2009 2:32 PM
Of course, some people would ask "But domestic partnership is legal across the country. Isn't domestic partnership basically the same thing?"

What, it's seperate but equal! And that is SUCH A GREAT IDEA. I mean, that's totally original, right? It's not something we've done before and FAILED MISERABLY WITH BECAUSE HOLY SHIT THERE'S NO REASON TO DENY PEOPLE EQUAL FUCKING RIGHTS.

The vote in Maine even STATED that churches and officials would have the right to refuse to perform gay marriages if they were personally against them, so they don't even have the excuse of "THEY'LL FORCE THE CHURCH TO STOP STAY TEH GAIZE R EBIL!" So WHAT THE HELL?!
Blair Waldorf: 11/06/2009 4:47 PM
I think conservatives just want to wipe homosexuality off the face of the Earth. The problem is: They can't. People are people, so just put on your big kids panties and get over it.
Gianna;): 11/06/2009 5:12 PM
I agree. But uhm,
"Neil Patrick Harris wasn't kidding when he declared gay marriage will save the economy"
No. Marriage for anyone should totally be legal and its total bull that its not. But gay marriage will not magically fix the economy.& This is why I hate our goverment.
Obviously gay marriage will,however,cause the world to end and global melting.Duh.That is the only exuse left and I stand by it!
Mousy: 11/06/2009 5:37 PM
I love how they are trying to 'protect the sanctity' of marrige. HA, what sanctity? I could go get married in vegas right now if I wanted to (or at 4 AM if I need to factor in the time it'll take me to get drunk enough), Celebrity's can get married as bussiness stunts. people can get married and divorced six times, if they want....course I'm sure that is much more holy because it's between a man and a woman... :P
Oh, and as far as rasing children goes: considering how hard it is to adopt a child, odds are that if a gay couple fights hard for a child than they will take better care of said child than some maternal parents do.
youreshameless: 11/06/2009 10:06 PM
This is what makes me lose faith in humanity. It's 2009, almost, 2010! We SHOULDN'T have to be protesting for this! Marriage should be for everyone. And one of the sad things is, some of the people who are 'trying to protect the sanctity of marriage' were against inter-racial marriages too. But we got past that! So why can't we get past this?

By the way, this was a very well written post! ♥
Ikky-ikky-arriba!: 11/07/2009 5:13 AM
First off, I don't think that calling civil marriage or improved partnership rights is in any way a "pseudo victory". Any recognition of gay rights is a step forward, and the kind of social and legal change required realistically isn't going to happen overnight. Incremental change is the best way, as it is less confronting and socially unstable, particularly in parts of the world where homophobia is so strong.

I think it's also important not to assume religious people who oppose gay marriage and religion in general are necessarily the same things. The rules and commandments of the Old Testament, including Leviticus are "sins", but they are not mortal sins. The New Testament is all above love and acceptance. My point is that, these people don't oppose gay marriage because of religion per se, they're just picking and choosing parts to suit their own prejudices. There are plenty of other non-religious people who oppose gay marriage, and they voted on this too.

Also - gay marriage NOT save the economy. I'm sorry, but no amount of pseudo-economics will convince me of this. The whole problem stemmed from shittastically bad credit policy by banks and government regulators.
Gretchen Weiners: 11/07/2009 9:20 PM
ikkyg said:
First off, I don't think that calling civil marriage or improved partnership rights is in any way a "pseudo victory". Any recognition of gay rights is a step forward, and the kind of social and legal change required realistically isn't going to happen overnight. Incremental change is the best way, as it is less confronting and socially unstable, particularly in parts of the world where homophobia is so strong. .
Agreed. It's going to take time to turn laws like this around, as the voting base steers away from die-hard conservatives to liberals and moderates who swing in whichever direction has the best advertising. A shocking percent of voters only vote against gay marriage because they think school children will be taught about it in schools, which is so fucking false. (Pardon my French.) Marriage, being an adult institution, is too mature for small children to comprehend, so it shouldnt' be discussed at all in schools- same-sex or "traditional." Moderates aren't being properly convinced that same-sex marriage only affects same-sex couples, which is why these bills are passing. It seems weird, but it really has very little to do with flatout homophobia, especially when it's sugarcoated with that "separate but equal" bullshit. Some people, who aren't homophobes, are voting against gay marriage because they think "gays have enough rights, it's no big deal," or whatever.
But, as time passes, forward thinkers become the majority (I refer you to the equal rights movement of Dr. Martin Luther King's time) and laws like this are repealed.
Blair Waldorf: 11/07/2009 9:38 PM
Is it really that bad if they teach kids about homosexuality in schools? I mean, sure, teaching kids about sexuality in grade school is usually not cool, but is it bad to talk about how some kids have different lifestyles then the one mommy, one daddy lifestyle?
Gretchen Weiners: 11/07/2009 9:54 PM
Eh, kids really shouldn't learn about sexuality in schools until jr. high. If their parents want to talk about it sooner, they need to bring it up- not the school. It has nothing to do with favoring one lifestyle over the other, it just has to do with what's appropriate to teach in schools. Some things (sexuality, religion, ect.) need to stay definitively out of public schools.
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ohforeverr: 11/08/2009 12:48 AM
I don't understand why conservatives take gay marriage so personally.
Wouldn't they think that gays would, like, go to hell or something?
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